He She Game

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He She Game Short Description:

In this he she game, you and your child will assign objects to the boy or the girl as you learn about gender-specific pronouns, such as “he she” and “his her”. You will be given a link to download the files to create this game. Simply print and assemble and you will have a file folder game that you can take anywhere. This game comes with written activities for how you can use it to work on a variety of speech and language skills. The primary skills targeted with this game are labeling objects, using pronouns (he, she), and using possessive pronouns (his, her). However, instructions are included for activities that target many other speech and language skills Your child will love playing this game and you will love how easy it is to work on speech and language skills at home.

He She Game Materials Needed:

  • One File Folder
  • Paper to print this file
  • Adhesive Velcro (such as dots or strips, can be found at walmart or craft stores)

He She Game Assembly Instructions:

1. Print out page 4 on regular printer paper.  Cut out the girl and glue her onto the left side of the inside of a file folder as pictured above.  Cut out the boy and glue him on the right side of the folder as pictured.  If desired, laminate the file folder for added protection. 2. Print page 5 on card stock or thicker printer paper.  If desired, laminate this page for added protection.  Cut out each piece and attach a piece of Velcro to the back of each one. 3. Place 12 Velcro pieces on the file folder in a circle around the boy and another 12 pieces around the girl.  Make sure to use the opposite side of the Velcro from the type you put on the back of the pieces. 4. Use the game as described in the instructions on the following pages.  Choose one skill that your child needs to work on and do the activity for that skill.

He She Game Speech and Language Activities

You can do any of the following speech and language activities with this game:


There are a variety of objects included with this game.  You can have your child tell you what those things are called, or you can have them point to the one that you name (such as, “Where is the ball?”)

Spatial Concepts:

Talk about where your is putting the pieces in relation to the boy or girl, or the piece’s location on the page in general.  For example, you could say “you put it beside the girl” or “you put it at the top of the page”. Target concepts: top, bottom, above, below, middle, side, left, right, high, low, beside, next to, near to, far away from

Pronouns/Possessive (Pro)nouns:

Use the girl and the boy on the board to practice talking about gender specific grammatical markers.

    • Pronouns: Who wants this purse? …”He does” or “She does” or “They do”, “I want a ball”, “What do you want?”
    • Possessive Nouns: Ask your child, “Whose is this?”  Have your child respond with “the boy’s” or “the girl’s”.  If this is too hard for your child, try having them show you something that belongs to the boy or girl, such as by saying “give me the boy’s ball”
    • Possessive Pronouns:Ask your child, “Whose is this (are these)?”  Have your child respond with ”His ball” or “Her hat” or “Their dogs”

Target concepts: he, she, they, I, you, his, her, their, hers, theirs, possessive ‘s

Grammatical Markers:

  • Plurals: Talk about what you or the child has “I have two monkeys”.  Make sure your child gets the /s/ on the end of the word if she has more than one.
  • Present Progressive: Give the boy or girl one object and then talk about what the child is doing with that object.  For example, if you give the boy a food, talk about how “He is eating”
  • Articles: Make sure your child is using the articles “the” and “a” when asking for things, like “I want the apple, please”.  If he forgets, say it the right way and have him imitate it for you.
  • Past tense: Ask your child, What just happened?  Have her answer using a past tense verb, like “I put on an orange” or “He put  on an orange”
  • Conjunctions:  If your child wants two things, make sure he uses the conjunction “and” by saying “I want a bike and a coat”

Answering Questions:

What do you want next? What is a food that is red? Where are you going to put the apple? What are you doing? Who gets this dress? Who wants a cat? Whose is this? How many foods does he have? How can you tell this is the girl? When do you eat (name a food on the board)? Function: Ask your child what you do with each item

Following Directions:

Practice following one-step and multi-step directions by asking your child to put on certain pieces in order. Ex: First, put on the apple.  Then, put on the cup.


  • Receptive: Describe the piece you want your child to pick up.  For example, you could say “give me the red, juicy, fruit.”
  • Expressive: Have your child describe which piece she wants using descriptive vocabulary.  You could ask your child “how does that apple taste?”  or “what kind of food is that apple?”

* You can take turns giving and taking directions


  • Bring two or more children together to work on the board.
  • Make sure your child is taking turns with the other child.  Have him ask for turns and give turns with the other child asks.
  • Conversational Repair: Have your child give a direction to the other child. The second child must then either follow the direction or ask for clarification if he didn’t understand.  This helps them understand they must be specific in their directions and it gives them practice asking for help or clarification when they don’t understand

Target Skills: Initiation (asking for a piece), topic maintenance, and maintaining joint attention with a peer (or adult)


Sort by one or two criteria:

  • Have your child sort the pieces using one category, like “Give the foods to the girl and the clothes to the boy (1 criteria)”
  • Have your child sort the pieces using two descriptors, such as “Give the salty foods to the boy and the sweet foods to the girl” (2 criteria-make sure there are pieces from other categories on the board so the child is not just sorting sweet vs. salty)

Describe Similarities and Differences:

  • Explain how two pieces are alike and different.  (They are both foods.  This food is sweet and the other one is salty)
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