This page is all about 6 year old speech and language skills. Keep in mind that these milestones are based on research about typically-developing children but this information is not meant to diagnose a speech-language delay or disorder. There is a wide range of “normal” and even if your child is slightly delayed in a few of these areas, it doesn’t necessarily mean he or she has a speech or language delay. Please contact a speech-language pathologist for a screening if you are concerned about your child’s speech and language skills. All norms are taken from the Linguisystems Guide to Communication Milestones which sites the specific resources and research articles used to find each milestone.
Speech Sound Development
By this age, your child should be able to consistently make the following sounds correctly:
-/p/, /b/, /m/, /h/, /n/, /w/, /d/, /k/, /g/, /d/, /f/, “y”, /t/, “ng”, /r/, /l/
Your child’s speech should be understood by a stranger 90%-100% of the time.
Grammatical Markers
Your child should be correctly using most of the following grammatical markers:
- Pronouns:
– I, me, you, he, she, him, her, we, us, they, them
How to teach the pronouns “he” and “she”
- Possessive Pronouns:
– My, mine, your, yours, his, her, hers, our, ours, their, theirs - Other pronouns like:
– myself, yourself, herself, himself, itself, ourselves, yourselves, themselves - “-ing” on the end of verbs
How to Teach Present Progressive “-ing”
- Plural -s (The apples)
- Possessive -s (Mommy‘s ball)
- Past tense verbs (jumped, ran, etc.)
- Regular third person singular (he jumps, she runs)
- Articles (the ball, a banana)
How to Teach Articles “the” and “a”
- The conjunction “and”
How to Teach the Conjunction “And”
- Helping verbs such as “to be”, “to do”, and “to have”, including contractions (such as “that‘s my ball”, “I’ll do that”, and “I have two”)
Your child should also be producing sentences with an average length of 4.5 words/morphemes or more.
How to Increase Sentence Length
Pragmatic Skills
Your child should be interacting with other people in most of the following ways:
- Uses threats and promises
- Asks for the meanings of words
- Likes to complete projects
- Makes purchases at store (with adult supervision)
- Asks questions for information
Asking Questions Resource Page
- Chooses own friends
- Takes more care in communicating with unfamiliar people
- Engages in cooperative play, such as making group decisions, assigning roles, and playing fairly
- Announces topic shifts
Literacy/Book Skills
Your child should be using books in most of the following ways:
- Recognizes letters and letter-sound matches
- Understands that print is read left to right and top to bottom
- Retells simple stories
- Begins to write stories with some readable parts with assistance
- Tries to spell words when writing
- Understands that spoken words are made up of sounds
- Recognizes some words by sight
- Identifies and writes uppercase and lowercase letters
- “Reads” a few picture books from memory
- Prints own first and last name
- Has mastered phonological awareness and pre-reading skills:
The Ultimate Guide to Phonological Awareness and Pre-Reading Skills
Concept Development
Your child should have an understanding of most of the following concepts:
- Understands comparative and superlative adjectives, such as “big”, “bigger”, and “biggest”
- Understands time concepts yesterday, today, tomorrow, first, then, next, days of the week, last week, next week
- Understands different, nearest, through, thin, whole
- Identifies positional concepts first, middle, last
- Understands opposite concepts, such as big/little, over/under
- Understands left/right
- Understands number concepts up to 20
- Answers “How are things different/same?”
- Uses adjectives for describing
- Uses comparative adjectives such as loud, louder
- Uses yesterday and tomorrow
- Uses adverb concepts of backward and forward
- Uses prepositions through, nearest, corner, middle
- Names ordinal numbers, such as first, second, third
Vocabulary Development
Your child should have a vocabulary of about 2,600-7,000 words. We don’t recommend you try to count all of them, this should just give you a rough estimate!
Questions
Your child should be able to use questions in most of the following ways:
- Answers a variety of questions, including “yes/no”, “what”, “who”, “where”, “why”, “how”, “when”, and “how many” (as long as there are only a few things)
- Asks “what”, “where”, “when”, “how”, “whose” and one-word “why” questions
- Asks “is” questions (like “what is this?” and “is she crying?”)
Listening Skills
Your child should be doing most of the following listening skills:
- Repeats sentences up to nine words in length
- Follows three-step directions
How to Teach Following Directions
- Responds correctly to more types of sentences but still may be confused at times by more complex sentences
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Hi I would like speech for my son
Hello! I am not currently offering speech therapy. I would search the internet for speech therapists in your area or speak with your child’s doctor or local school district.
What exercises do you recommend practicing at home for a 6 year old who is speech delayed and has touble pronouncing sounds and letters?
Check out this page for information about specific speech sounds:
Speech Sound Resource Page:
http://www.speechandlanguagekids.com/speech-sound-resource-page/
hi my grandson is 6yrs he is very bright and speaks and reads well above average but does not understand a lot of what he reads or what people are saying to him
I’m sorry to hear your grandson is having trouble! I definitely recommend having a speech-language therapist evaluate or screen him if you’re worried. The one at his school should be able to do this for free!
Hi, my 5 yr old daughter has a language of 2 yr old. She has just been diagnosed with autism.
Is there some way to help her cope up with the delay ?
Hi, Jayshree-
You can try reviewing this link or this link to assist with your daughter.
Hi
My son six and half years old and he can read, memories write but his conversation is weak not in his age.
I saw quite improve in the last 3 months.
Could you please give me advise regarding him.
Also I took him to many doctors and speach therpists all of them said، he has no problem but still his conversation weak
Morning, I have a 6 years old niece who minds go 100 miles a minute. She changes topic quickly and moves from places to places. She learned well enough, but I feel like we are holding her back by thinking she is not listening and just won’t stop. Her speech is almost at age level, with some issues. Should we get her tested? Sign her up for activities? Or….?
hi! my 6 yeard old daughter is hard to communicate.she know how to read and can speak f she want but when i ask a question about in school she cant answer.for example.what are you doing in school.she cant answer me but if i’ll ask a question she want to hear she answer rightly..what shes need for her